My Midlife Crisis Dog: A Small, Cute Puppy To Spoil
Friday, August 24th, 2007
I thought I was a big dog person. We had little ankle-biters when I was a kid, so when I became a married grown-up type person with a house of my own, I logically opted to fill my home with larger breeds of dogs. In short order, we had a Llewellin Setter, a Labrador Retriever, and a Weimaraner. All three are wonderful family dogs and I wouldn’t trade them for the world. I was happy.
And then I turned 40. So I adopted a small dog.
I know, that is a pretty big leap in logic. Chalk it up to the feminine mystique, guys. And truly, the big Four-Oh in and of itself isn’t a huge hairy deal. By the time you’ve got kids, your own birthdays take a back seat to your childrens’ birthdays, and the Big Day isn’t such a big event any more. But 40 was somehow significant to me, because I accepted that I would have no more two-legged babies in my house until my own children have children. And I love being a mom. The species of the child is irrelevant.
A couple of months before my birthday, I felt a change coming on and began browsing Petfinder.com for small breed puppies. I told myself I was just looking … awww, how cute! … and the small breed pups would get adopted or moved to a rescue very quickly.
Then I spotted her: her name then was Lilly and she was in a shelter about three hours away from us. She was an eight-week-old black, tan and white Chihuahua and had been found wandering in an alley with her sister. And you know what? I had grown up with a black chihuahua! It was fate.
I wrote to the shelter, they approved my adoption application, and I made arrangements to drive to the shelter on July 14, 2005 to pick her up after she’d been spayed. As it happened, that very day was my 40th birthday.
