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	<title>Comments on: Controversy Over Pet&#8217;s Name On Tombstone</title>
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		<title>By: Kristy</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-57288</link>
		<author>Kristy</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 20:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Judging by the video, the woman got exactely what she wanted - attention. I agree with Lis 100% 

You wouldn't name your child "Sh**head" (and probably are not allowed to legally) and I think it is a shame that someone thinks it is entertaining to name a pet that. Obviously there would be more problems to that with kids (they realize their name when they group up,) but it still reeks. Her video makes her look ignorant (comparing it to names that have double meanings) and red-necky. And I am from the south!

While I whole-heartedly support her right to bury a dog there, she should not have the right to display profanity in a public place. There are public  decency laws/ordinance for a reason. Do I occasionally curse? Yes, but that doesn't make it okay to permenately publish it in a public place. I don't want someone's headstone to be in the shape of a dildo because their name is "Peter" either. 

If she wants to bury the dog in a plot she bought - she absolutely should be allowed. If she wants to call her dog a curse word, as much as I hate it and think she's a jerk for doing so, she has every right to do so. But she shouldn't have the right to force her profanity on me in a public place.  Anyone with kids and that gives a darn, knows that. Too many kids these days are foul-mouthed exactely because of people like her. Any person that walks in that cemetary (including children) may accidently look at that headstone in a time of brievement. 

I'm a pretty open-minded gal, but for the life of me I don't know when showing a little decency became so "out of vogue". There is a time and place for everything. If she looovvveeeddd her dog so much, then I doubt she would have waited 8 years to get a headstone that has profanity on it (much less call her dog that.) More than likely, she originally bought the plots for her and her husband, and keeps finding new ways to piss him off.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Judging by the video, the woman got exactely what she wanted - attention. I agree with Lis 100% </p>
<p>You wouldn&#8217;t name your child &#8220;Sh**head&#8221; (and probably are not allowed to legally) and I think it is a shame that someone thinks it is entertaining to name a pet that. Obviously there would be more problems to that with kids (they realize their name when they group up,) but it still reeks. Her video makes her look ignorant (comparing it to names that have double meanings) and red-necky. And I am from the south!</p>
<p>While I whole-heartedly support her right to bury a dog there, she should not have the right to display profanity in a public place. There are public  decency laws/ordinance for a reason. Do I occasionally curse? Yes, but that doesn&#8217;t make it okay to permenately publish it in a public place. I don&#8217;t want someone&#8217;s headstone to be in the shape of a dildo because their name is &#8220;Peter&#8221; either. </p>
<p>If she wants to bury the dog in a plot she bought - she absolutely should be allowed. If she wants to call her dog a curse word, as much as I hate it and think she&#8217;s a jerk for doing so, she has every right to do so. But she shouldn&#8217;t have the right to force her profanity on me in a public place.  Anyone with kids and that gives a darn, knows that. Too many kids these days are foul-mouthed exactely because of people like her. Any person that walks in that cemetary (including children) may accidently look at that headstone in a time of brievement. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m a pretty open-minded gal, but for the life of me I don&#8217;t know when showing a little decency became so &#8220;out of vogue&#8221;. There is a time and place for everything. If she looovvveeeddd her dog so much, then I doubt she would have waited 8 years to get a headstone that has profanity on it (much less call her dog that.) More than likely, she originally bought the plots for her and her husband, and keeps finding new ways to piss him off.</p>
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		<title>By: Lawsuit Against Owner Who Buried Dog In Cemetery &#124; Itchmo: News For Dogs &#38; Cats</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-57123</link>
		<author>Lawsuit Against Owner Who Buried Dog In Cemetery &#124; Itchmo: News For Dogs &#38; Cats</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 12:01:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-57123</guid>
		<description>[...] Itchmo comes to you when called.Sign up for our daily email digest or subscribe in a RSS reader.Last month, we brought you the story of Judy Hagan. Her beloved rat terrier died eight years ago, and she buried him in her local cemetery in 1999 with the city&#8217;s permission. Initially, there was controversy over this because of her dog&#8217;s name: Sh**head. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Itchmo comes to you when called.Sign up for our daily email digest or subscribe in a RSS reader.Last month, we brought you the story of Judy Hagan. Her beloved rat terrier died eight years ago, and she buried him in her local cemetery in 1999 with the city&#8217;s permission. Initially, there was controversy over this because of her dog&#8217;s name: Sh**head. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Most Popular Dog And Cat Names &#124; Itchmo: News For Dogs &#38; Cats</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-51071</link>
		<author>Most Popular Dog And Cat Names &#124; Itchmo: News For Dogs &#38; Cats</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Aug 2007 14:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-51071</guid>
		<description>[...] name? Is it Lucky, Princess, or Potato? (I actually have met a dog named Potato.) I think this one name is probably one of the most controversial pet names I have ever [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] name? Is it Lucky, Princess, or Potato? (I actually have met a dog named Potato.) I think this one name is probably one of the most controversial pet names I have ever [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Kahla</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-43900</link>
		<author>Kahla</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2007 21:35:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-43900</guid>
		<description>I think it's ridiculous that people could have any say in it.  If you don't like it, don't look at it.  Simple as that.  Maybe she grew attached to the name. Even if she regretted it later, it would confuse the dog.  Oh, and I saw a comment that said that name meant that she didn't truly love the dog.

Well, if that were true, this argument wouldn't be happening now, would it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s ridiculous that people could have any say in it.  If you don&#8217;t like it, don&#8217;t look at it.  Simple as that.  Maybe she grew attached to the name. Even if she regretted it later, it would confuse the dog.  Oh, and I saw a comment that said that name meant that she didn&#8217;t truly love the dog.</p>
<p>Well, if that were true, this argument wouldn&#8217;t be happening now, would it?</p>
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		<title>By: Don Earl</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-43022</link>
		<author>Don Earl</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 16:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-43022</guid>
		<description>If the dog has been there for 8 years, with no complaints, and the "memorial" has been added recently, with lots of complaints, what is at issue isn't too hard to figure out.

The memorial could just as easily been to "S", which would be unlikely to offend anyone.

The work arounds used on Internet message boards to avoid webmaster oversight aren't something parents should have to explain to their children when visiting the final resting place of a loved one.

Like Will Rogers said, "Your right to swing your fist stops where my nose begins.".</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If the dog has been there for 8 years, with no complaints, and the &#8220;memorial&#8221; has been added recently, with lots of complaints, what is at issue isn&#8217;t too hard to figure out.</p>
<p>The memorial could just as easily been to &#8220;S&#8221;, which would be unlikely to offend anyone.</p>
<p>The work arounds used on Internet message boards to avoid webmaster oversight aren&#8217;t something parents should have to explain to their children when visiting the final resting place of a loved one.</p>
<p>Like Will Rogers said, &#8220;Your right to swing your fist stops where my nose begins.&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Lis</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-43002</link>
		<author>Lis</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 15:48:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-43002</guid>
		<description>Gindy, dogs don't know English, but they do know what feeling a person is expressing when they speak to them. And words have meaning and emotional content for people; the emotion that goes with "s***head" isn't a positive emotion. If she loved the dog, that's not what she would have called it.

And how we treat animals is a major indicator of how we treat people. And in turn, that has a HUGE impact on our prospects as a species.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gindy, dogs don&#8217;t know English, but they do know what feeling a person is expressing when they speak to them. And words have meaning and emotional content for people; the emotion that goes with &#8220;s***head&#8221; isn&#8217;t a positive emotion. If she loved the dog, that&#8217;s not what she would have called it.</p>
<p>And how we treat animals is a major indicator of how we treat people. And in turn, that has a HUGE impact on our prospects as a species.</p>
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		<title>By: Jan</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42997</link>
		<author>Jan</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 15:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42997</guid>
		<description>Lis...you said it even better than I did. Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lis&#8230;you said it even better than I did. Thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: wescott20</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42966</link>
		<author>wescott20</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 12:12:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42966</guid>
		<description>In Florida I believe it is now the law that a person may be buried with their pet.  I hope this trend spreads to other states.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In Florida I believe it is now the law that a person may be buried with their pet.  I hope this trend spreads to other states.</p>
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		<title>By: Gindy</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42957</link>
		<author>Gindy</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 11:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42957</guid>
		<description>Lis, dogs do not care what you name them. Sheesh.
We had a dog named Dammit. Best mutt ever and people loved his name.
Kids actually got to say a "cuss" word and not get in trouble for it.
Really, with all the stuff going on today people are getting upset over a dead dog's name.
We are doomed as a species if this is what makes people get upset.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lis, dogs do not care what you name them. Sheesh.<br />
We had a dog named Dammit. Best mutt ever and people loved his name.<br />
Kids actually got to say a &#8220;cuss&#8221; word and not get in trouble for it.<br />
Really, with all the stuff going on today people are getting upset over a dead dog&#8217;s name.<br />
We are doomed as a species if this is what makes people get upset.</p>
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		<title>By: Dennis</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42909</link>
		<author>Dennis</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 06:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42909</guid>
		<description>There are so many other important things to focus on, and for those local folks to fuss with this grieving lady over her pooch, they should give her a break and they should MYOB. There will be next to no one who sees that stone or cares.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are so many other important things to focus on, and for those local folks to fuss with this grieving lady over her pooch, they should give her a break and they should MYOB. There will be next to no one who sees that stone or cares.</p>
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		<title>By: HighNote</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42896</link>
		<author>HighNote</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 03:47:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42896</guid>
		<description>Since this lady paid for the grave I see nothing wrong with it. Too bad more cemetaries will not let animals to be buried beside their masters, but they don't.  There would be a lot less cats and dogs that would be put into dog food from the vets office.  We would have a place to put them when their time came. With us like it should be.  They were our friends in life. Why shouldn't they share our place of death?
I don't care for the name myself but I have seen some pretty wild names on tombstones and I certainly would not complain about the dead. A grave yard is a place for our loved ones to go to rest and a name should have nothing to do with it. As far as people not liking being buried by pets.  WEll Really how stupid is that! So what next people are going to complain about who they are buried next to?  Complain about a dog first, what next? race?  I don't care who is buried next to me. I'll be dead. It could be a man that beat his wife or killed someone or heaven knows what. When I am dead I sure won't care.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since this lady paid for the grave I see nothing wrong with it. Too bad more cemetaries will not let animals to be buried beside their masters, but they don&#8217;t.  There would be a lot less cats and dogs that would be put into dog food from the vets office.  We would have a place to put them when their time came. With us like it should be.  They were our friends in life. Why shouldn&#8217;t they share our place of death?<br />
I don&#8217;t care for the name myself but I have seen some pretty wild names on tombstones and I certainly would not complain about the dead. A grave yard is a place for our loved ones to go to rest and a name should have nothing to do with it. As far as people not liking being buried by pets.  WEll Really how stupid is that! So what next people are going to complain about who they are buried next to?  Complain about a dog first, what next? race?  I don&#8217;t care who is buried next to me. I&#8217;ll be dead. It could be a man that beat his wife or killed someone or heaven knows what. When I am dead I sure won&#8217;t care.</p>
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		<title>By: B</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42894</link>
		<author>B</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 02:28:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42894</guid>
		<description>Does nobody remember Steve Martin's movie "The Jerk"?

That was the name of his dog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Does nobody remember Steve Martin&#8217;s movie &#8220;The Jerk&#8221;?</p>
<p>That was the name of his dog.</p>
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		<title>By: Lis</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42890</link>
		<author>Lis</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Aug 2007 01:37:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42890</guid>
		<description>There's no good reason her beloved dog shouldn't share the grave plot and be memorialized.

However, if she had loved and respected the dog, she wouldn't have given it that name. Words have both dictionary meanings and emotional context, and in this case both are disrespectful in the extreme.

That name wasn't an expression of love. And the offense that other people are taking at it is so completely predictable that I believe it was intended. If she wants to atone somewhat for her attitude towards her dog while it was alive, she can give it a more respectful name so that its tombstone won't provoke outrage. More likely, though, she's already getting exactly what she wants.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s no good reason her beloved dog shouldn&#8217;t share the grave plot and be memorialized.</p>
<p>However, if she had loved and respected the dog, she wouldn&#8217;t have given it that name. Words have both dictionary meanings and emotional context, and in this case both are disrespectful in the extreme.</p>
<p>That name wasn&#8217;t an expression of love. And the offense that other people are taking at it is so completely predictable that I believe it was intended. If she wants to atone somewhat for her attitude towards her dog while it was alive, she can give it a more respectful name so that its tombstone won&#8217;t provoke outrage. More likely, though, she&#8217;s already getting exactly what she wants.</p>
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		<title>By: 2CatMom</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42884</link>
		<author>2CatMom</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 23:59:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42884</guid>
		<description>A funny related story - I don't believe that animals are allowed to be buried in a human cemetary where I live.  

One of my friends called a local funeral home and asked if she could be buried with her pets' ashes (when the time came, of course).  They told her that they couldn't because it was against the law.  However, they told her that if she wanted to be buried with a handbag - they weren't going to look inside.  Considering how many pets she's had over the years, that's going to be one big handbag!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A funny related story - I don&#8217;t believe that animals are allowed to be buried in a human cemetary where I live.  </p>
<p>One of my friends called a local funeral home and asked if she could be buried with her pets&#8217; ashes (when the time came, of course).  They told her that they couldn&#8217;t because it was against the law.  However, they told her that if she wanted to be buried with a handbag - they weren&#8217;t going to look inside.  Considering how many pets she&#8217;s had over the years, that&#8217;s going to be one big handbag!!</p>
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		<title>By: mittens</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42879</link>
		<author>mittens</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Aug 2007 23:16:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/controversy-over-pets-name-on-tombstone-2046#comment-42879</guid>
		<description>my grandfather made us promise we'd get blind drunk and piss on his grave when he was gone. i'm sure he's proudly occupy a space next to S$$$head particularly since his own nickname given to him by his mother was S$$$poke.

perhaps if people concentrated more on their own misdeeds and cruelties and 'unchristian' thoughts towards other humans they'd spend less time focused on other's use of socially suspect language. if bad words were the only problem in society i'd say we'd almost be in heaven. it's a pity that pettiness follows some into their damn graves- where nothing on this earth matters whatsoever. words mean f'naught when youre taking up real estate in the bone orchard.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my grandfather made us promise we&#8217;d get blind drunk and piss on his grave when he was gone. i&#8217;m sure he&#8217;s proudly occupy a space next to S$$$head particularly since his own nickname given to him by his mother was S$$$poke.</p>
<p>perhaps if people concentrated more on their own misdeeds and cruelties and &#8216;unchristian&#8217; thoughts towards other humans they&#8217;d spend less time focused on other&#8217;s use of socially suspect language. if bad words were the only problem in society i&#8217;d say we&#8217;d almost be in heaven. it&#8217;s a pity that pettiness follows some into their damn graves- where nothing on this earth matters whatsoever. words mean f&#8217;naught when youre taking up real estate in the bone orchard.</p>
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