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		<title>By: shibadiva</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-79857</link>
		<author>shibadiva</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2007 01:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sigh, it disturbs me too, because as soon as the magic spell wears off, the dog is fair game.

On the other hand, based on the information about the young girl who married a dog, the dog essentially continues to live in the village as a quasi-stray, and the marriage is a ritual only. 

It's hard for us to see this situation through our Western lens.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sigh, it disturbs me too, because as soon as the magic spell wears off, the dog is fair game.</p>
<p>On the other hand, based on the information about the young girl who married a dog, the dog essentially continues to live in the village as a quasi-stray, and the marriage is a ritual only. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard for us to see this situation through our Western lens.</p>
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		<title>By: Sigh</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-79841</link>
		<author>Sigh</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2007 00:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-79841</guid>
		<description>I don't know - I've been taking psychology classes recently as I prep to enter the medical field, and it seems to me that most men who torture animals as youngsters tend to have sociopathic personalities, and often go on to abuse women and children.

Letting this man near an animal doesn't seem like a wise decision. And I agree that he doesn't give a rip about his karma. He's sick, and a superstitious priest told him he could be healed by a ceremony. I understand we're not talking about an educated group of villagers here, but that doesn't mean that it's wrong to point out how ignorant and misdirected this kind of thing is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know - I&#8217;ve been taking psychology classes recently as I prep to enter the medical field, and it seems to me that most men who torture animals as youngsters tend to have sociopathic personalities, and often go on to abuse women and children.</p>
<p>Letting this man near an animal doesn&#8217;t seem like a wise decision. And I agree that he doesn&#8217;t give a rip about his karma. He&#8217;s sick, and a superstitious priest told him he could be healed by a ceremony. I understand we&#8217;re not talking about an educated group of villagers here, but that doesn&#8217;t mean that it&#8217;s wrong to point out how ignorant and misdirected this kind of thing is.</p>
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		<title>By: shibadiva</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-79275</link>
		<author>shibadiva</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2007 02:08:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-79275</guid>
		<description>A nine-year-old tribal girl in eastern India has married a stray dog as part of a ritual to ward off an "evil spell" on her, Indian newspapers have reported. The girl, Karnamoni Handsa, had to be married quickly because she had a tooth rooted to her upper gum, which is considered a bad omen.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3004930.stm

Apparently, these folks routinely marry animals, trees and statues to ward off the evil eye. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A nine-year-old tribal girl in eastern India has married a stray dog as part of a ritual to ward off an &#8220;evil spell&#8221; on her, Indian newspapers have reported. The girl, Karnamoni Handsa, had to be married quickly because she had a tooth rooted to her upper gum, which is considered a bad omen.</p>
<p><a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3004930.stm" rel="nofollow">http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3004930.stm</a></p>
<p>Apparently, these folks routinely marry animals, trees and statues to ward off the evil eye.</p>
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		<title>By: shibadiva</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78957</link>
		<author>shibadiva</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:01:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78957</guid>
		<description>I'm afraid I'm with Rhonda and Stefani on this one. What is the canine equivalent of bride beating, bride burning, female foeticide, honour killings, etc.? The combination of rural superstition and patriarchy doesn't look good for Selvi.

Is this man's "atonement" for life or just for now? What if he had killed a woman in the past, and married her sister for atonement (and a cure for his ailments)?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m afraid I&#8217;m with Rhonda and Stefani on this one. What is the canine equivalent of bride beating, bride burning, female foeticide, honour killings, etc.? The combination of rural superstition and patriarchy doesn&#8217;t look good for Selvi.</p>
<p>Is this man&#8217;s &#8220;atonement&#8221; for life or just for now? What if he had killed a woman in the past, and married her sister for atonement (and a cure for his ailments)?</p>
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		<title>By: stefani</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78447</link>
		<author>stefani</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 03:22:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78447</guid>
		<description>To the people who think this man is trying to atone:

Um, he and the humans involved in the wedding had a FEAST, while the gave Selvi a BUN -- a totally innappropriate and indaquate meal. 

This is an indication that her future treatment will be even worse.  AFter all, grooms' behavior tends to degrade afer the wedding day.  And he had all those guests watching. 

This is awful, he's not atoning at all.  A bun!  Poor dog! 

stefani</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To the people who think this man is trying to atone:</p>
<p>Um, he and the humans involved in the wedding had a FEAST, while the gave Selvi a BUN &#8212; a totally innappropriate and indaquate meal. </p>
<p>This is an indication that her future treatment will be even worse.  AFter all, grooms&#8217; behavior tends to degrade afer the wedding day.  And he had all those guests watching. </p>
<p>This is awful, he&#8217;s not atoning at all.  A bun!  Poor dog! </p>
<p>stefani</p>
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		<title>By: Poodlluver</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78446</link>
		<author>Poodlluver</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 03:20:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78446</guid>
		<description>OH, and uh the poor dog DID deserve more than a roll....
but they dont treat  their human women very nicely over there either from what I understand.
That may be customary for the bride for all we know....  :^O</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OH, and uh the poor dog DID deserve more than a roll&#8230;.<br />
but they dont treat  their human women very nicely over there either from what I understand.<br />
That may be customary for the bride for all we know&#8230;.  :^O</p>
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		<title>By: stefani</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78445</link>
		<author>stefani</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 03:19:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78445</guid>
		<description>Huh?  This is sick.  So what is he going to do with the dog? 

It is very disturbing that people actually place animals in the care of animal abusers.  It won't teach them a lesson, it will just give them proximity to another animal to harm. 

I hope the dog runs away from home, is adopted by a family who won't abuse him, and the man continues to suffer the curse of the karma he has already earned through his prior abusive actions. 

stefani</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Huh?  This is sick.  So what is he going to do with the dog? </p>
<p>It is very disturbing that people actually place animals in the care of animal abusers.  It won&#8217;t teach them a lesson, it will just give them proximity to another animal to harm. </p>
<p>I hope the dog runs away from home, is adopted by a family who won&#8217;t abuse him, and the man continues to suffer the curse of the karma he has already earned through his prior abusive actions. </p>
<p>stefani</p>
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		<title>By: Poodlluver</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78443</link>
		<author>Poodlluver</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 03:15:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78443</guid>
		<description>Hi Pam,

No, I dont think that someone that suffers is suffering because they have done something wrong or bad necessarily.
Everyones situation is different though. I think God does allow certain things to happen to certain people FOR certain reasons. 
I'm not God, and I certainly cant explain WHY bad things happen to people that dont seem to deserve it. 
(I could go on and on about that topic, but I will spare you ;)

I DO however think that when someones conscience is bothering them bad enough combined with (physical) agony, that they may look back on their life
and think that they are getting what they deserve and that God is angry with them. (or whatever their higher power may be)

So, they in return try to make it right and receive forgiveness the best way they know how. 
 Like everyone else here....I just hope and pray that the dog will be ok. and that it is treated kindly and cared for.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Pam,</p>
<p>No, I dont think that someone that suffers is suffering because they have done something wrong or bad necessarily.<br />
Everyones situation is different though. I think God does allow certain things to happen to certain people FOR certain reasons.<br />
I&#8217;m not God, and I certainly cant explain WHY bad things happen to people that dont seem to deserve it.<br />
(I could go on and on about that topic, but I will spare you ;)</p>
<p>I DO however think that when someones conscience is bothering them bad enough combined with (physical) agony, that they may look back on their life<br />
and think that they are getting what they deserve and that God is angry with them. (or whatever their higher power may be)</p>
<p>So, they in return try to make it right and receive forgiveness the best way they know how.<br />
 Like everyone else here&#8230;.I just hope and pray that the dog will be ok. and that it is treated kindly and cared for.</p>
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		<title>By: Pam</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78418</link>
		<author>Pam</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 02:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78418</guid>
		<description>Poodlluver,

Of couse it is possible that this man has changed.  I guess it would be nice to think/hope that is true.   In all reality, this is probably not the case.  It is more likely that his ailments have caused him to look for reasons and it could be that he has already tried to "atone" for other things he has done in his past, and that didn't bring him relief.  I may be cynical, but I really doubt that he has changed.  Why do you say "we are allowed to suffer for reasons?"  Would you presume that anyone who suffers has sinned or done bad things?  

And, Rhonda, I too would worry what happens to the dog if his ailments don't disappear.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Poodlluver,</p>
<p>Of couse it is possible that this man has changed.  I guess it would be nice to think/hope that is true.   In all reality, this is probably not the case.  It is more likely that his ailments have caused him to look for reasons and it could be that he has already tried to &#8220;atone&#8221; for other things he has done in his past, and that didn&#8217;t bring him relief.  I may be cynical, but I really doubt that he has changed.  Why do you say &#8220;we are allowed to suffer for reasons?&#8221;  Would you presume that anyone who suffers has sinned or done bad things?  </p>
<p>And, Rhonda, I too would worry what happens to the dog if his ailments don&#8217;t disappear.</p>
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		<title>By: Rhonda</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78412</link>
		<author>Rhonda</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 02:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78412</guid>
		<description>When the physical ailments don't go away after marrying the dog..... then what?
Does he stone this dog too?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When the physical ailments don&#8217;t go away after marrying the dog&#8230;.. then what?<br />
Does he stone this dog too?</p>
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		<title>By: Poodlluver</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78140</link>
		<author>Poodlluver</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 18:16:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78140</guid>
		<description>Pam,
What you say may be true, but dont you think that the physical ailments may be what brought him to see what he did wrong?

Clearly he now understands that he did wrong otherwise he would not relate his physical ailments to something that he did wrong in his past.

We are allowed to suffer for reasons. 
Its just that some people never see clearly why they are being allowed to suffer. Or refuse to even look back at the things in there life they've done.
Obviously this mans concience has worked on him over the years and he is now doing what HE thinks is right. Even if it sounds crazy to others.

At least other humans didnt have to bring him to justice like so many others HERE. 
Over there animals have no rights and that is due to lack of education and knowledge about animals.
How can WE judge this man that we have never met and say that he has not changed? 
We will never know what his true reasons for doing this is. Only he knows. All we can do is hope that he HAS changed. Its NOT impossible for people to change you know...

Let those that have never sinned cast the first stone......</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pam,<br />
What you say may be true, but dont you think that the physical ailments may be what brought him to see what he did wrong?</p>
<p>Clearly he now understands that he did wrong otherwise he would not relate his physical ailments to something that he did wrong in his past.</p>
<p>We are allowed to suffer for reasons.<br />
Its just that some people never see clearly why they are being allowed to suffer. Or refuse to even look back at the things in there life they&#8217;ve done.<br />
Obviously this mans concience has worked on him over the years and he is now doing what HE thinks is right. Even if it sounds crazy to others.</p>
<p>At least other humans didnt have to bring him to justice like so many others HERE.<br />
Over there animals have no rights and that is due to lack of education and knowledge about animals.<br />
How can WE judge this man that we have never met and say that he has not changed?<br />
We will never know what his true reasons for doing this is. Only he knows. All we can do is hope that he HAS changed. Its NOT impossible for people to change you know&#8230;</p>
<p>Let those that have never sinned cast the first stone&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Pam</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78110</link>
		<author>Pam</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 17:29:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78110</guid>
		<description>Unfortunately, it's clear he is only "atoning" for his sins because he is "suffering from physical ailments," not because he has changed and feels he was wrong about killing the dogs.  

Just sad.  I hope the dog he "married" is taken care of at some humane level.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unfortunately, it&#8217;s clear he is only &#8220;atoning&#8221; for his sins because he is &#8220;suffering from physical ailments,&#8221; not because he has changed and feels he was wrong about killing the dogs.  </p>
<p>Just sad.  I hope the dog he &#8220;married&#8221; is taken care of at some humane level.</p>
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		<title>By: Poodlluver</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78078</link>
		<author>Poodlluver</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 16:24:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78078</guid>
		<description>Sarah,Mittens,straybaby.....

Made the only comments here that make any sense, and show that true compassion also involves common sense and morals.
Violence and hate does nothing but feed more cruelty and anger in this world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah,Mittens,straybaby&#8230;..</p>
<p>Made the only comments here that make any sense, and show that true compassion also involves common sense and morals.<br />
Violence and hate does nothing but feed more cruelty and anger in this world.</p>
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		<title>By: Tanya</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78056</link>
		<author>Tanya</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 15:32:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78056</guid>
		<description>Thank you, mittens.

this crowd does seem to think violence is a solution to individual human's problems.  That bothers me, cause I can never, ever condone violence on a human being or animal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, mittens.</p>
<p>this crowd does seem to think violence is a solution to individual human&#8217;s problems.  That bothers me, cause I can never, ever condone violence on a human being or animal.</p>
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		<title>By: Lynne</title>
		<link>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78011</link>
		<author>Lynne</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 14:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.itchmo.com/man-marries-dog-as-part-of-atonement-3828#comment-78011</guid>
		<description>"Did they register anywhere? Whatâ€™s their food bowl pattern?"

LOL!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Did they register anywhere? Whatâ€™s their food bowl pattern?&#8221;</p>
<p>LOL!!</p>
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